6 secular suggestions is the new 12 steps

these 6 Secular Suggestions defeat addiction relapse rationally

Suggestion 1 – Learn how you became powerless over your addiction.

Suggestion 2 – Learn how relapse insurance gives you power over your addiction.

Suggestion 3 – Learn why it is worth the effort to get a manageable life.

Suggestion 4 – Learn from a trustworthy addiction recovery sponsor how to get a manageable life.

Suggestion 5 – Learn why spite is wrong and altruism is right.

Suggestion 6 – Learn how to become a trustworthy addiction recovery sponsor and then help other recovering addicts learn how to become authentic discerning individuals as their trusted advisor–to help you stay clean and sober yourself.

altruism = What can I do for you?
regard for others without regard for oneself; devotion to the interests of others; brotherly kindness
Altruism is the principle and moral practice of concern for the happiness of other human beings or other animals, resulting in better quality of life, both material and spiritual.

spite = If I can’t have sobriety, then neither can you.
ill will or hatred toward another, accompanied with the desire to irritate, annoy, or thwart; a want to disturb or put out another; mild malice
Spiteful words or actions are delivered in such a way that it is clear that the person is delivering them just to annoy, hurt, or upset.
He was so filled with spite for his ex-wife, his brother was afraid of what he might do.
His motivation remains constantly spiteful, undercutting his own existence and ability to live.